5 vs 1..

i'm actually waiting for ping now at uni so guess it is better for me to blog than to waste time wandering here n there like a spirit...u know jus like wat they call in cantonese..."wu wan yea kuai" hehehe

i had jus finished reading an article on relationship (yes, i know i should b reading some journals on my thesis instead..) then i recall wat mr.lee said in the sociology lecture last semester about interaction in relationship (i think, can't recall wat's d topic anyway hehehe)..
mr.lee was busy explaining d types of marriage, realtionship and so on...we (as in me vs siewling vs chau yen) too r busy toking bout our own relationship instead hehehehe

anyway d point is, i remembered quite clearly tat he did mentioned on a study in US . Through d study it shows tat in a happy couple, there is a need to show 5 positive interactions to cover 1 negative (5 VS 1) interaction tat has been made... that means if accidentally, yr bf said something that has hurt you for example " babe, u r fat d la recently"

he need to say at least 5 times of positive words to cover his mistake like
"but still, babe u looked sexy in that dress",
"n oh yes, d make up today makes u looked beautiful",
" my dear those earings, they r new?",
"yr hair, i like d way you tie them up..it makes yr neck desirable"
n lastly "babe...i'm so proud to hav you with me tonite :) "

on d other hand,
in my opinion, in marriage, one should not say the word "divorce" easily....
likewise even as a couple, one should not say"break up" easily..
i never like d idea of people saying breakup" as though it is part of their vocab cox i personally
think it is very hurtful..

then, never leave home or yr partner after a quarrel..cox u'l never know wat wil happen once they go out..
in d mid of frustration n sadness, ppl tend to b more emotional n less rational
therefore, it is very dangerous to b alone out there..accidents may happen..
moreover, when u get home, still you hav to start d quarrel all over again 2 finish d previous "unfinished battle"..

that's d tips for today(take note, they're only my personal opinions k)..for more information pls contact mis tash at 012-******* muahahahahahahaha

p/s: y i write on tis topic? cox am waiting for ping so jus wanna remind him of d 5 VS 1 theory kakakakakakakakakaka