Saturday, August 20, 2005

nature or nurture?

" serious, am i tat talkative?"
"hey, u should hav know tat 22 years ago! hahahaha"-wendy
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anyone, jus anyone from those who know me as a fren/fren's fren/fren's fren's fren's, or ppl who simply know me in general, wil usually use d word "siao","talkative", "chatterbox","noise", one of d highlight, "long gassss.....hehehehe" n others of d same meaning to refer me :) (checkout my friendster testimonial if u wan to)

i'm not from a debate or public speaking team bk in secondary sch..i not even one now..but most of my frens found me to be talkative.. jus like one of them..

but after some thougths i realised tat my talent to babble could b from nurture instead of nature. i can b very soft, quiet, humble, innocent, sweet, pure n d list goes on............ MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA *duh~~self praise is no praise at all*

The reasons are:

  • i hav tons of frens who simply like to laugh n they dun really tok much yet they r usually d one tat i am close wit...there r so so many of them n when i'm wit them, i wil some how b d one who's doing most of d toking...So, it's not tat i damn can tok but it's bcox they r d one who damn can laugh! if everyone starts laughing n no one to start toking then how?? so, no choice, i hav to sacrifice myself then.. :)
  • being only at third place in my family (dad's d winner, elder bro d second one, then me, my younger bro n lastly mum), there's no choice but to maintain my toking skills if not, dun think i can survive in d family where everyone wil jus shoot u down if u happens to use d wrong word in yr conversation...v can really tease each other n it is usually a 4 VS 1 situation..some ppl says tat i am GOOD at RATIONALIZING certain issues..thanks to all my family members, they r way far more capable n logical than i am..therefore, obviously my debating n crapping skills r from hard training n it's deffinately something tat is NURTURE out of me~~
  • when there's market demand, there wil b supply..as wat greeny n chloe told me.."it's fun to hear u tok..u sounds so funny hahaha~~" THOUGH i am dead serious at d moment.. *puzzle*
  • lastly, being a female itself, d talent to nag is as natural n pure as mineral water... :)
there r many more reasons but perhaps d above main reasons is enough to prove tat yr dear fren me is actually a very sweet n quiet girl..so dun say i am talkative anymore k!! peace~ :)

p/s:better get bk to my studies..

9 comments:

  1. Anonymous12:16 PM

    hey my dear fren,
    dun get so sad!!!
    talkative is not ur fault la...
    dun blame urself,k!
    heheh...*kek sei* hor..

    actually u r cute, soft n sweet...
    really!!
    n u r cheerful sometimes...
    no sometimes la is most of da time..
    heheh...
    tat's y i like 2 hear u tok...
    is my pleasure leh...

    p/s: happy 2 hav u as my treasure fren!!!

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  2. hey girl..hehehe
    me not sad la it's all yr falut also ma muahahaha
    thank u for being so supportive..
    seriously, am very glad tat u r not only my fren
    but as time goes by, guess v had build up a very special friendship!!
    thank u 4 listening to all my babble o~~hehehe
    miss ya~

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  3. Hi! Hi!

    Thanks for the link. I just saw it and thought it is proper I come by personally and say thank you!

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  4. 5xmom: hehehe hie..actually i really like yr blog... din manage to ask yr permission, hope u don't mind..thanks for dropping by :)

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  5. again, i can't stop laughing when i read your blog, and in fact, i have to suppress my laughter so hard in case i fell down from the chair, before the ppl in cyber cafe staring at me in bewilderment.

    don't deny your true nature, it's what makes your frens like you :) i dunno if anyone has told u this before, you kind of bring happiness to those around u :), so it's REALLY fun to hang out with you :)

    as for sweet, pure, innocent, quiet, soft...muahahahah--sorry, i really can't help myself...;P

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  6. chloe: hey so free to online in cc o..aiya no choice la~u must hav missed me terribly so jus hav to drop by no matter wat leh~~hehehe
    thanks for d compliment but stil i will insists tat i am sweet n QUIET k muahahahaha
    coming to sch tml? gathering leh~must come k!!hehe
    miss ya hehehe..
    did i jus say miss ya?..dun terbang...

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  7. Anonymous8:22 PM

    uhuh.. nice entry..Muahahahhaa..
    I cant help but feeling ur debating urself. =P But haiYoO..dun feel bad about it mah..tat's wat makes u so special..

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  8. sa: ain't feelin bad bout my self cox tat's not my nature ma~~MUAHAHAHAHAHAAH

    btw, shit now my blog look so much like a fishing 4 compliments' entry..NONONO..I AM JUS STATING D FACTs N STOP PRAISING ME! MUAHAHAHAHAHA praise la~praise la~ i like it!! muahahaha jk la~

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  9. ahahah..yes kaisim, i miss your babbling and your laffters :p
    *miss you*

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