to break or not to break..

during a yamchar section last week..we talked about telling someone to break up/not telling someone to break up..

my arguement:

sometimes,break up is not entirely not good. Who knows by breaking up it will do both party good?Moreover, often than not, most who wish to break up mainly because they have came to the edge of the relationship, they no longer feels the commitments in the relationship and they no longer see the once "shared-dream-future".

but somehow, knowing that the beat has stop, reality hits yet we are afraid to break up.This is because, we get too used to the idea of having someone to dine with us, to go to the cinema with us, to accompany us whenever we go, to lend us the shoulder to cry on and the hugs that keeps us warm.

we are afraid to be alone. And sure enough, the moment you say goodbye, things starts to fall apart. the computer broke down, the flush is not working, the tv, the fan, the air-cond, the door..everything just seems to go wrong, leaving you feeling even worst.All of the sudden, every songs you listen to seems to be singing specially for you.

but if you manage to go through that phase..looking back..yes, you had love him deeply once before ... as for the future, it is up to you,who knows you'l fall in love again..

as for me, i wish to live and to love without guilt and without regrets.